If it quacks like a duck it's a DUCK! PATO! It's not pathological behaviour when you keep chatting to somebody else. At least there is that "someone" who listens. Chatting with your voice coming out, yeah there is SOUND that you can hear from such conversation between you and your Mother. Or chatting between you and your friends. It's NORMAL for parents to talk to their children in what matters to them as a family. What happened in school from day to day activities. What happened to the children while they are at school. It is NORMAL for parents or esp. the Mother to ask what the children learned from school. Duty, responsibility and obligation of parents to ask the children not only of what they learned is sensible enough to make it to the next level. It is the duty of the Mother or Father to ask their children if they learned anything that will justify that the teachers TEACH or has TAUGHT them something new or what can be suitable for the grades they have or have to achieve. That's everyday day to day happening at home. Parents are worried about so many things happening at school for they also experienced the same kind of school environment wherein there are hostility, segregation, misunderstanding and misconception of too many concept whether when it comes to academic or extra curricular activity the students are engaged in school. Concerned parents are worried of the bullying system, fraternity, sorority and what else you can add? Parents are not that dumb to know whatever is happening or whatever is there a need to know...Let us be aware of everything so that we can help you. Not that we have to join the club.
I just happened to view certain video of "an expert" when it comes to behavioural problem and that person suggested that it's the Mother who's to be blamed and she concluded right away of "pathological behavior" and that woman need to see a doctor. This is when the problem is out of bounds. Parents knew all along. Mother most of the time experienced certain characteristic in them about "instinct" Mother instinct, she knows when a child is in trouble and she knows to have such wide knowledge in perceiving if there is something wrong with their child.
Let me tell you about this. AUTISM problem is more prevalent occurring disorder mentally and physically + psychologically here in Canada and the USA. Before the ratio of children with autism is 1 in 200 that's before Year 2000. Then later it was 1 in 165. Recently it's now 1 in 99. Increasing rate of autistic children in Canada. Even adults are experiencing that kind of similar malady. Know why? Let us find out why...when only few people talk in a certain village or community where you think the young kids learned from talking? When parents worked and only baby sitters are left behind to do the work at home and you think they have time to talk to the kids? At school how many teachers TALK? Do they really talk in front of the class or just watch them like as if they are their babysitter? Now that the communication is thr. TEXTing even teenagers have problem talking and problem with communication becomes in demand. Texting! Just simple greetings is through texting. Only few people now use telephone to communicate. When they heard people talking they thought they are weird and ignorant. Is it too much to talk? Talking with voice coming out from your voice box is a normal way to practice your vocal chord. It makes you human when you talk. Only human talk and parrots! Right there's voices and words coming out from these two beings.
So why autistic children cannot talk? Do they read minds instead? They mimic others of what they can hear? What could be the problem? I love talking. TALK and chatting. Conversation seemed such an abnormal way of life now because some people hate talking and they cannot voice out their grievances and they all end up in the mental ward or ER because of heart failure. When you stop people from talking there must be something wrong either you are in the library, in private room listening to another conversation or listening to music or inside the church where the priest is officiating a mass. To stop someone from talking or stop people from talking when it is a right for that someone to talk is rude. What's wrong with talking? Don't you like hearing voices from people? Do you like them unable to learn? You want them to shut up and be mute?
Excessive talking is not good. I know that. When you are not ask about it or been questioned there's no need to respond. Okay let's all text and write instead but you will be spoiling your saliva again. Make sure you have gum so that your breath is fresh and not stagnant and smelly like an imburnal. make sure you brush your teeth and use listerine or any good scope mouthwash to freshen your breath because when you stop talking the germs in your mouth accumulate so much bacteria and that's the leading cause of bad breath.
I love to hear people talking. It makes me feel like I'm in a civilized world. I like to feel that I am not in a cemetery. I like people talking because it's their right and a privilege of certain few in a given society. Aren't you glad you can talk because others cannot talk or utter any single word?
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